I’m not offended by what you’ve asked at all, and I’ll try to answer your questions. My blog is all about openness and honesty after all (as well as sex)!
My husband and I have this amazing relationship, built on respect and support. This whole thing with other people is something we stumbled on, and each other has a total veto on anything that is going on.
So I basically ignored my love of women for a decade. I tried to be the good one-man woman. It didn’t work. I never cheated, but had this draw that I could never put away. I had this sense of dread when I got with my husband that this would go the same way as other relationships. But we’ve always been able to talk about stuff (sometimes needing care because your body fails isn’t an easy topic).
So when I was telling him, he was very supportive of me reconnecting with my lesbian side. But then of course, I was thinking about him. He’d always had multiple women on the go (all above board - they each knew there were others and there were very few relationships other than for sex and friendship). So I began to think about a situation where we could both fuck the same woman. It all started there.
We had the sex parties where the women fucked each other, but the men only fucked their own women, and moved on from there. It was there I really got the bug for sexual acts in front of an audience (although I did some of that at uni, but had put out of my mind how much I enjoyed it).
Now Vicki was never intended to happen. She started out as casual sex with us both (terms she wanted as much as us), We were getting closer and I was happy about that and wondering how the relationship could develop, but then I got ill, and Vicki got amazing, helping us both to cope with what I was going through. Everything changed, and the relationship became what it is now. So now, we are equal partners, and because each of us are selfless, it really works. For me, a relationship has always been about support as well as sex, and Vicki does that in spades. Getting close to Vicki in the first place just happened over time. Bringing her full time into our lives was a no brainer, given what had happened, and it is one of the best decisions I ever made.
You would have thought there would be jealousy, but there really isn’t. I know I’ll get mine soon enough, so all is good. More than anything, I love watching people fuck in real life. On screen porn doesn’t do it for me now - never really did if I’m honest. Real sex you can reach out and touch does. That and the written word.
And of course, there are others for more casual sex as well. More of that on the blog in the coming months, although you already know about Laura, and I will soon get to repost about Paula (which you might have read first time round).
And one of these days, we’ll get another man or two. Husband has told me I’m going to get DPed, spit roasted and ultimately airtight, long term things I want to get ticked off. (Done them with his cock and strapons attached to women, but not yet with other actual men). But we struggle finding men more than women, so it hasn’t happened yet. It will, I’m sure of that.
Feel free to ask anything else
Love, Mira xx